Have you ever noticed that even in marriages where the bride and groom seem to have it all– looks, money, the perfect story– things sometimes go to pieces? It leaves a lot of mere mortals without the fairytale budgets and picture-perfect smile stand a chance. The truth is, that the regular people of the world stand as much of a chance as those with big budgets to buy their girls a little bit of everything.
Why?
Because when it comes down to it, most girls aren’t proverbial material girls regardless of how great of a show they put on. They may claim that diamonds are a girl’s best friend. They certainly won’t turn them down when offered. But, what a girl really wants is to feel like the queen of your world and not just an afterthought. These simple steps might not seem like much, but they’ll make a world of difference to the girl who is currently the queen of your heart.
Sweat the Details
Many men follow the wrong advice when they pay attention to people telling them not to sweat the small stuff. Life is the small stuff. It’s the small stuff that passes by, ignored and overlooked, while you’re busy looking for the big statement items. Don’t let her get away because you were so busy searching for something monumental to show your love that you overlooked a thousand small ways you could have told her or showed her how you feel.
Kiss her Hellos and Goodbye – Regardless Of What
Life gets busy sometimes. It’s easy to overlook the details of what’s going on at home when you have a thousand different demands firing your way at the office or you’re worried about how you’re going to make ends meet next month. Whatever your worries may be, you should have no worry greater in your life than greeting your girl hello and leaving her with something to remember you throughout the day.
The perfect solution?
A kiss.
It costs little and speaks volumes.
Give her a Night Off Every Week
There’s nothing the average busy wife and mother wants greater than a night off each week. Come home and take over. Plan the meals. Feed the kids. Bathe the kids. Tuck them in. Draw her a bath and take over kitchen cleanup duties while she relaxes in the tub. It will feel like a little piece of paradise to her and show her just how devoted to her you really are.
Send her Silly Little Love Notes
They may seem silly to you, but these are the important things she’ll read a thousand times over the years. She’ll wrap them in ribbons and take them out to look into whenever the road gets a little rough between you. If you continue sending them, she’ll often revisit them to see how things have changed, and how much they’ve stayed the same between both of you.
You don’t need to spend ridiculous sums of money to show her that she really is the queen of your hearts. More importantly, these small gestures make her believe that she’s the queen of your world too.