Relationships often go in cycles. Sometimes things are up and everything feels like smooth sailing. At other times, you drift apart and the waters are choppy and sharks seem to get circling. Sometimes you break up. Other times your relationship simply drags. That loving feeling you used to have together seems like it’s gone for good. But, what if you could receive it back? What steps do you have to bring to make him fall back in love with YOU?
Treat Yourself Like the Lady You Are
Sometimes you forget to treat yourself like a lady. You forget that you need a little pampering. You need to feed your soul. More importantly, you have to take charge of yourself– physically. You have to eat right, exercise, take care of your skin, get a new haircut, etc. You need to feel good about the reflection you see in the mirror. You have to do all the many things a lady does to believe that someone who deserves to have doors opened for her in addition to other acts of chivalry. Once you start treating yourself like a lady, chances are he’s most likely to notice and start treating you like a lady too.
Keep in mind that this has to do with making you happy. Make changes that matter to you– that will help you feel better about yourself and more confident. Some of the changes you might consider include:
- Makeover
- Manicure
- Pedicure
- Diet/Weight loss
- Fitness
- Teeth whitening
- New hairstyle
- Wardrobe update
- Spa treatment
The changes do not need to be drastic if you want to have a drastic influence on your self-confidence and outlook on the world around you. Nor, do they need to be major overhauls to get him to take notice. The main take away from this, however, is not that he won’t love you if you’re imperfect. It is that it is easier for him to fall back in love with you if you aren’t busy tearing yourself down for perceived flaws instead.
Fall for the Woman You Are.
While it’s always good to strive for improvement, it’s also important that you love yourself for the woman you are. He will find it much easier to love you from all over again if you love yourself as well. I’m not suggesting that you become a woman who is self absorbed or self obsessed. Only that you accept yourself for who you are and find peace with that. Embrace your strengths. Work to change your weaknesses, but don’t punish yourself for being human. All of us are. Once you discover how to love yourself, you’ll be a much happier, person he’s likely to find irresistible.
You don’t have to move mountains or make miracles to regain his love. Love may ebb and flow as time go on but it takes a while to disappear completely. The odds are in your favor that if he’s loved you before, you can easily recover his love once you discover how to love yourself too.